watching videos of spiders is very soothing
okay seriously if you’re in a relationship or even a friendship and you find yourself spending more time crying out of sadness or arguing with them, leave them. i don’t care if they’re a modern day aphrodite/adonis or a gift bestowed upon you by the gods. toxic people are dangerous and i highly advise cutting them out of your life and finding someone who makes you laugh until you snort your drink out your nose instead.
It’s weird it’s ok to get upset about so many things in life. You can be upset about sports or grades or being friend zoned or going to the dentist or a new video game costing money. Hell if you don’t like your food at a restaurant you can send it back and they’ll make it over again.
But god forbid you get upset about the systematic oppression of whole group of marginalized people.